(Crunchy Lemon & Poppyseed Muffins Recipe Below)
Crunchy Lemon & Poppyseed Muffins
2 cups self-raising flour
1 cup sugar
1/2 cup poppyseeds
finely grated rind of 2 lemons
100g butter
(Crunchy Lemon & Poppyseed Muffins Recipe Below)
In this video I share two of my "Go to" verses, a
few simple living tips to keep from overwhelm, two parenting tips, a resource
for children, a helpful movie, a new playlist, and a recipe.
Grease or line loaf tin. Preheat oven to 180C. Beat eggs and
butter. Add lemon rind, lemon juice and sugar and beat until creamy. Sift in
the flour, baking powder and salt and mix in with milk until combined. Pour
into loaf tin and bake 45-55 minutes or until cooked. Mix together syrup
ingredients. When loaf is cooked, take straight from the oven and while still
hot pour the syrup over. Cool in the tin.
In this video I show what the children made with their pastry, another simple living tip, a frugal living tip and what I've been doing to make the most of what I have and a helpful Christian movie recommendation.
In this video I share a gardening tip, a tip I find helpful with clothes and laundry, a Christian movie that someone else recommended to me, a way we save money, some photos/videos from our holiday and a few other things.
I hope you and your family have had a nice Easter reflecting on Jesus, the cross and the empty tomb!
On this video I give an introduction and share my motive and reasons why. I also share the kind of things I hope to make videos about. I love it when I hear helpful tips from other people and I believe strongly in sharing to help each other! In my case it's more of a need to share things. If I didn't have some way of sharing, I would burst or something!
I do not think I know anything better than anyone else, I am just like a beggar telling other people where I found some food! Also, I get overwhelmed very easily and I've had plenty of times when I've been sick/pregnant and in survival mode. The last thing I want to do is to overwhelm someone else especially if they are going through a time of 'survival!'. So please take what's helpful and leave what's not!
(Tips to keep from being overwhelmed #7 and #8)
7. It's Just Stuff
It can be very hard to not hang on to things unnecessarily! I find it helpful to remember that all those things are just stuff. Stuff. It's not human. It's not a member of the family. It doesn't have a soul. It's often replaceable. It's usually forgotten when it's out of sight. It will all be left behind when we die. It collects dust. It takes up space. It has to be looked after and maintained. It has the ability to affect our stress levels and
our mental health.
8. And then, seeing that stuff is just stuff, I Make a Choice.
Would I rather have stuff or space? Would I rather have an easy to clean, tidy, peaceful home or one that is always overflowing with stuff that always needs tidying, organizing and rearranging? What would I rather have? Some people can have a lot of stuff and they manage to keep it clean, tidy, organized and a lovely place to be. I admire them! But for some of us like myself, it's one OR the other. It's heaps of stuff OR a clean tidy house. It's time to do things that are important to me OR it's endlessly trying to get on top of everything.
If you are overwhelmed or your home is not a place you enjoy being at, remember that stuff is just stuff! And then remember that you have a choice. What will you choose?
(Tips to keep from being overwhelmed #6)
6. If you make a mistake, there's usually a way around it.
Fear of making mistakes can keep us from getting rid of things we don't need anymore. We are afraid that in the future we will need what we got rid of. But I have found that for the few times I have made mistakes, there's usually a way round it. For example I threw out a picture that my son had made for someone. To me it looked like an old scrap of paper and I put it in a drawer that I put paper/cardboard in.( When it's full I dump it in the recycling bin. This works well because we don't have to run outside every time a scrap of paper needs to go in the rubbish, and also if we throw a piece a paper away by mistake, we can usually find it in the drawer.) But my son missed this picture and was trying to find it. He had made it for Grandma! And I couldn't find it in the drawer. I felt bad that I had thrown it out, but there was a way around it. I gave him some of my stickers and a blank card, and he made a much nicer card. He was happy!
Today I had a similar thing happen. I went to find a list of names and phone numbers that I use once a month to rsvp for a lunch we host. To my dismay this list had completely disappeared. I know I wouldn't have thrown this list away on purpose, but whatever happened, it is lost. I didn't know what to do. But since I had a separate list with just the names, I realized that I could look up the names in the phone book and I got most of the phone numbers there. There were two names I couldn't look up because I didn't have the last names. But one of those people rang up to see if the lunch was on and she gave me the phone number of the one lady whose number I still didn't have.
When you declutter, it is likely you'll make a mistake every now and then. But most likely it will be well worth it for all the unnecessary things you get rid of. I heard a lady say something like this, "For 100 things I decluttered I made a few mistakes. But it was worth rebuying a few small things to get rid of ALL those things I didn't need."
So don't let the fear of making a mistake keep your house full of clutter! Remember that if/when you make a mistake, there's usually a way around it. And most things you get rid of, you'll never think of again!
(Tips to keep from being overwhelmed #5)
5. You don't have to keep things forever
For me the hardest thing to declutter is gifts. For some reason I feel like it's rude not to keep them forever. It feels wrong to give away something that was given to me. But I have learned that I don't have to keep gifts forever! People give me gifts to show their love. They don't give me gifts to fill up my house and make me stressed! So if gifts are no longer useful and have become more of a burden, then there is nothing wrong in passing them along for someone else to enjoy. It is the the love and thought that is the real gift. So if I get given a gift that I can't use or I don't like, it doesn't matter, because it is the love behind it that is the real gift! Birthdays come around every year, and so does Christmas. If I keep every gift I'm ever given, I'll need a much bigger house! I LOVE to get given gifts, but if I feel like I have to keep every gift forever, then I start to dread gifts!
This lesson applies to everything really. I don't have to keep any object forever. If it is not useful to me anymore, there is no reason to hold onto it. I may aswell pass it along so it can be useful for someone else.
(Tips to keep from being overwhelmed #4)
4. Ask yourself "Do I need it?" instead of "Could I use it?"
A helpful thought that I heard is to ask yourself if you need something rather than if you could use it (when you are deciding whether to keep something or not). One of the reasons that our house gets filled up with so much stuff is that we think we may use it one day. If you keep every thing that you might be able to use, your house will stay full and cluttered. And most likely you will never use it because you will forget you have it and it will be buried under everything else!
For example... a margarine container. Could I use it? Of course it could be used for something. But do I need it or do I already have enough containers?
A mug that I don't really like. Could I use it? Of course! But do I already have enough without it? Could I get along without it? Definitely. So why keep it?
A pot. Can I use it? Of course. Do I need it? A totally different question! If I don't need it, I don't need to keep it.
Just about anything can be used, so it you want to have a house that is not overwhelmingly full and unorganized, try asking this question. Such a simple thought but it can be life and house changing! For me I NEED an uncluttered 'easy to tidy' house, not a million bits and bobs!
(Tips to keep from being overwhelmed #3)
3. Boundaries are a good thing
In our house there is not a lot of storage space. I have learned that this can be a good thing. I can only keep what fits in that space. It helps me to not keep everything. If I don't have enough space, I look for what I can get rid of.
There are times when our space is simply too small. Especially if our family is growing or if we live in a very small space. But in general, it helps to look at boundaries in a positive light. One of our daughters has a very small room. Instead of complaining that it's so small, I can be thankful that a small room keeps her from hanging on to everything because it simply can't fit! She can only keep what fits in her room. If she had a bigger room, she would end up with way more stuff to try to keep tidy. The boundaries make the decisions for us.
Tips to Keep From Being Overwhelmed #2
2. We need less than we think.
This is not always true. I remember my sister saying she hadn't realized how many clothes newborn babies go through in a day! She needed to get more for hers. But in general, we often think we need a lot more clothes, toys, linen, dishes etc. than we actually do.
For example, on most days I only wear one outfit. Two at the most. So in the morning when I get dressed, I only need one outfit. There are only seven days in a week. There's only four weeks in a month. When Lydia had complications after her heart surgery, I ended up in Starship hospital with only 2-3 changes of clothes. I was surprised to find it was actually enough! While it's not practical to live with so few clothes (and I came home with a huge suitcase!), it showed me that I need less than I think.
Toys. We think the more toys we have, the more busy our children will be. Instead, the more toys, the more mess! The more toys the less time we have, because we are so busy trying to keep up with all the mess. I have cut down on the amount of toys we have and tried to stop buying so many toys. Because our kids really do not need or miss them. The less toys, the more creative they get and the less tidying they have to do. I was looking after children in our church's creche recently. A tub of toys had just been tidied up and put on the shelf. I watched as a little boy reached up and pulled them back down. He took off the lid, dumped them all over the ground and walked away. He never even played with them! I don't know what fun kids get from dumping toys, but they seem to have more fun dumping them than playing with them!
Linen. I donated about half of our towels, teatowels, and facecloths. I haven't missed them because we didn't need them all. But I love having cupboards that aren't overflowing.
If your house makes you feel overwhelmed as mine did, try having less. Ask yourself, how much do I actually need? If you're afraid you'll need things, just put them in a place out of sight and give it some time. If you don't have to pull them back out, you know you'll be safe! You will be surprised at how much you don't miss or need. You will also find that you have less stress and mess!